• 🔦 Signs Your Child May Be Experiencing Bullying
    What to look for – and how to help

    🚩 Warning Signs:

    • Unexplained cuts, bruises, or scratches
    • Few or no close friends
    • Avoids school, the bus, or social activities
    • Makes excuses not to go to school
    • Takes a longer or unusual route home
    • Sudden drop in school performance
    • Seems sad, moody, or withdrawn after school
    • Frequent headaches, stomachaches, or other physical complaints
    • Trouble sleeping or frequent bad dreams
    • Loss of appetite
    • Appears anxious or shows low self-esteem

    🗣️ What to Say to Your Child:

    Avoid asking directly, “Are you being bullied?”
    Instead, try gentle, open-ended questions:

    • “I’ve heard bullying can happen in schools—what’s it like at yours?”
    • “Is there anyone who teases you or leaves you out on purpose?”
    • “Who do you sit with at lunch or on the bus?”
    • “Are there kids you don’t get along with? Why?”

    Let them know:
    ❤️ You love them
    🛡️ It’s not their fault
    🤝 You’re here to support them.

    🤔 If You're Unsure but Noticing Warning Signs — What Can You Do?

    Talk to school staff. Start with your child’s teacher—they observe peer interactions and classroom dynamics every day. Ask:

    • “How does my child get along with others?”
    • “Have you noticed signs they’re being picked on or left out?”
    • “Can you check in with other staff members who know my child?”

    If you're still concerned, reach out to your school Social Worker or principal to discuss your observations and explore next steps.

    🏫 What to Do If You Suspect Bullying:

    If you believe your child—or another student—is being bullied, report your concerns.

    📣 Reports can be made:

    ✅ Who can report: Students, staff, parents/guardians, or other adults can report to any School District staff member. Click on Bullying Flowchart

    🕓 Once a Report is Received:

    • The reporter is given a Rights, Protections, and Services letter.
    • A school administrator or designee will review the report within 24 school hours to assess safety.
    • An investigation begins within 1–2 school days, which may include:
      • Contacting parent(s)/guardian(s)
      • Following the discipline matrix
      • Developing an intervention/supervision plan
      • Providing peer mediation/restorative practices (if appropriate and not determined to be bullying)
      • Contacting law enforcement if necessary

    🔒 All information will be kept appropriately confidential.

    💬 Final Note:

    Even if it’s not bullying, your child could be facing other emotional or social challenges.
    Don’t hesitate to reach out to your School Social Worker or a mental health provider for support.