• Understanding the Difference: Bullying, Mean, Rude, and Conflict

    At our schools, we believe it’s important to help children learn how to build healthy relationships and resolve problems in a safe and respectful way. Below is a guide to help clarify the differences between behaviors that are often confused.

    • Rude Behavior happens when someone is inconsiderate or impolite, but not necessarily intentional. This may include interrupting, bragging, or cutting in line.

    • Mean Behavior is when someone says or does something to hurt another person on purpose, but it might happen only once or occasionally.

    • Conflict is a normal part of life and occurs when two people disagree or want different things. Conflicts can usually be resolved when students are taught respectful problem-solving skills.

    • Bullying is intentional, repeated behavior meant to hurt, humiliate, or intimidate someone. Bullying involves a power imbalance and can be physical, verbal, emotional, or done online.

    Understanding the difference helps us respond appropriately and support all students in learning safe, kind, and respectful behavior.